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      <image:caption>Healing from the fawn response is not about swinging to the opposite extreme or becoming harsh. It is about including yourself in the circle of people you care for.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The fawn response often begins in relationships where direct conflict did not feel safe.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Healthy boundaries allow you to give from a place that is grounded and chosen instead of obligated and resentful.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A boundary is simply where you end and another person begins. It is the line that protects your time, body, emotions, and values.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Anxious attachment is not a flaw in your personality. It is a pattern that usually forms in response to early experiences and gets carried into adult relationships.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Healing anxious attachment does not mean you stop caring about closeness. It means you develop a steadier sense of self so that relationships feel less like walking on thin ice.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Caring for yourself does not mean you care less for others. It means you include yourself in that care.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>While it can appear kind, people pleasing often leads to internal conflict and fatigue.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Perfectionism often begins in childhood. You may have grown up in a home where mistakes were criticized, emotions were minimized, or success was the only way to feel valued.</image:caption>
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